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What You Should Never Say to Kids During a Massachusetts Divorce

We all say things we regret from time to time, but there is no more crucial time forSecrets 1.jpg parents to mind their words than during a Massachusetts  divorce. Not only can the things they say come back to haunt them in divorce court, but, more importantly, they can harm children and the people around you. So if you're feeling frustrated, fed up or ready to explode, take a deep breath, count to ten and, above all, bite your tongue because there are things you should never, ever say.

Massachusetts Fathers Guide To Not Missing Out on Your Child's Childhood

Being there isn't enough - a good Massachusetts dad is a present dad. That meansFather and son 4.jpg savoring every moment with your child, putting away your smartphone, and living mindfully. Alas, like anything worthwhile, it takes practice. Lots of practice. "Presence is focusing on right now, rather than having your awareness on something in the future, or worrying about the past," marriage and family according to therapist David Klow.  "It's training our minds to focus on the depth of the moment rather than fleeing to go somewhere else."

How to Lower Your Massachusetts Child Support

Updating or correcting your Massachusetts child support does not make you less of a father orChild Support 16.jpg mother; it just means you'll have more money to spend on your child in different ways. The child support guidelines have a formula that is based on a number of factors. And if your child support is too high or calculated incorrectly, you are actually doing your child a disservice. The entire point of child support is that it's supposed to make sure that your child is comfortable and, well, supported wherever they may be. If you're paying child support above and beyond the guidelines, then you cannot support your child the way that they require when they visit with you. To that end, here are some things to consider.

How to Serve a Massachusetts Service Member Who is Deployed - By Email

Service of U.S. state court paperwork is similar to serving on exclusive federal landMilitary 32.png - the Army, for example, will first ascertain whether the servicemember will voluntarily accept service. If not, the requesting party is advised that he/she must comply with the requirements of the host nation or Hague Convention on the Service Abroad of Judicial and Extrajudicial Documents in Civil or Commercial Matters.

Infographic: Sharenting or Parenting: What Kind of Massachusetts Parent Are You?

You might not be familiar with the term, but chances are either you or your Massachusetts friends are "guilty" of it. Sharenting refers to parents oversharing information and pictures of their children on social media. Sounds a little bit more familiar now, doesn't it? This infographic looks at sharenting and parenting so you can see what kind of parent you are.

How To Tell If You're In a Toxic Massachusetts Relationship -- And What To Do About It

It's a common refrain: relationships in Massachusetts are hard work. Fights areConfusion.jpg normal and rough patches are par for the course.

Contemplating a Massachusetts Divorce? Answer Two Essential Questions First

A Massachuserrs divorce is devastating on many levels. The shot to the heartDivorce 115.jpg takes your breath away and leaves you doubled-over as if you were punched in the gut. And that's just for starters...

Infographic: Child Custody Arrangements in Massachusetts

The Massachusetts Probate and Family Courts have wide discretion in making child custody orders and thus the results are not predictable with any level of certainty. The courts are guided by a child's best interest in making an initial custody order. Courts make orders relative to physical custody and legal custody. The parties are encouraged to reach agreements between themselves without court intervention. 

Why a Good Massachusetts Divorce is Better Than a Bad Marriage

Before deciding on a divorce, you will want to weigh all your options andDivorce 116.jpg decide what is and isn't working in the relationship. You or your partner may be able to change some things so as to save the marriage, although some issues may be deal breakers.

If Are You In a Toxic Relationship in Massachusetts - Get Out!

A toxic relationship is a relationship characterized by behaviors on the part of the toxic partner that are emotionally and, not infrequently, physically damaging to their partner.

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