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How to Compete to Win with a Massachusetts Ex That Can't Stop Competing

Many divorced Massachusetts parents with kids will have played the "competitionWinner.png game" before. Some play competitive all the time. Experts will tell you it's not good for the kids. 

Can I Make Him Visit Our Massachusetts Children?

No, you cannot "make" someone visit or spend parenting time with their children,Parenting 4.jpg but you can incentivize, motivate and encourage. One motivation technique or incentive Massachusetts divorce lawyers often employ is to craft the agreement, or court order such that if a visiting parent misses their scheduled visit, they pay the costs for the custodial parent to have a babysitter for that time period or to pay lost wages. Of course that is a negative incentive, sometimes positive ones like perhaps offering to be flexible with the times or to do the work for them (like to plan a birthday or holiday party and let the other parent come enjoy it without having to prepare, contribute or clean up. No, it is not fair. But it may give the children a chance to see the other parent.

Parental Guidance: 15 Things to Give Up to Be a Happy Massachusetts Parent

You want to be a happy Massachusetts parent but your countless responsibilitieFamily 40.jpgs make this goal challenging. Don't lose hope just yet.

3 Pillars For Becoming A Present, Conscious Massachusetts Father For Your Children

Ask 10 people what they think a good Massachusetts father is, and you willFather with children.jpg probably get 10 different answers with some similarities. Ask those same people what they desired most from their father, and you may see a strong connection between what they desired and how they now define a good father.

What Massachusetts Children Need Most When Their Parents Divorce

When parents go through a Massachusetts divorce, children's psychological needsChildren 27.jpg greatly increase as they live in the middle of an emotional and perhaps economic roller coaster filled with guilt, fear and confusion.

Ex-Etiquette Rules For Divorced Massachusetts Parents

The transition from an intimate partnership in which the parents share a personalEtiquette matters.jpg relationship to the more distant co-parent relationship is difficult for many Massachusetts parents to manage. The difficulty is compounded because often each parent has different preferences and expectations for co-parenting.

What is the Difference Between Discipline and Abuse of a Massachusetts Child?

Abuse should never be considered discipline and good discipline should never beMom - Dad Discipline.jpg abusive. But in the heat of a disciplinary moment, particularly one fraught with stress, Massachusetts parents can quickly approach the border of abuse before they even realize it. The speed at which correcting a child can turn into damaging a child makes it hard to pump the breaks, and even harder to be self-aware enough to recognize the danger.

The Best Apps For Controlling and Limiting Massachusetts Kids Screen Time

Today's smartphones offer near limitless access to information, but they alsScreen Time Apps.jpgo access porn, violent imagery, and other disturbing content your Massachusetts children might not be ready to see. And then there's the very real possibility of addiction to the device's entertainment. But, rest assured, with the rise of these devices' ubiquity has come a number of parental control devices and apps that help you do everything from block problematic sites to set weekly screen-time limits.

Communication Is Important for Massachusetts Co-Parents Preparing for Back-to-School

As a Massachusetts parent, you are likely to be feeling a mix of emotions aboutBack to school 9.jpg sending your children back to school. On one hand, it is a little sad that summer will soon be over, but on the other hand, you could probably stand a little extra quiet time after being around your children more consistently. If you share co-parenting responsibilities with your former partner, however, back-to-school is a perfect time to re-evaluate your rules, boundaries, and other elements of your parenting arrangements.

What You Should Never Say to Kids During a Massachusetts Divorce

We all say things we regret from time to time, but there is no more crucial time forSecrets 1.jpg parents to mind their words than during a Massachusetts  divorce. Not only can the things they say come back to haunt them in divorce court, but, more importantly, they can harm children and the people around you. So if you're feeling frustrated, fed up or ready to explode, take a deep breath, count to ten and, above all, bite your tongue because there are things you should never, ever say.

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