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The Most Common Personality Traits That Lead to Massachusetts Divorce

As anyone who enters into a Massachusetts marriage knows, the odds feel stackedDivorce 145.jpg against couples before the first "I do's" are even said. It's not only that  Massachusetts divorce statistics sit pulsing in the distance but also the fact that there are so many different behaviors or scenarios that can upend your relationship. One of the best things to do then is arm ourselves with knowledge of the personality traits that, left unchecked, can doom a marriage. Because we all have bad habits and in understanding the worst ones, we can better recognize our faults, hold ourselves accountable, and be the best partner we can be. In other words, in trying to better ourselves, we can shake the looming specter of Masachusetts divorce from our minds and focus on the future and the joy of being married.

Lessons For a Good Massachusetts Marriage, From the Divorced Who Finally Got It Right

With the Massachusetts divorce rate on the rise it's inevitable that in the course ofChange 2.jpg dating, you'll run into someone with an ex (or two). And somewhere into that first or second date, you've probably asked what went wrong. And when the answer begins  with the words my wife, or my husband, it's time to duck out.

Advice For Divorced Massachusetts Parents During The Holiday Season: Flexibility Is The Key

Massachusetts parents who could never cooperate while married often find thatHappy holidays.jpg the holiday season throws them back into the same kinds of arguments and stressful interactions that led to their Massachusetts divorce.

Let Children of a Massachusetts Divorce Love Their Other Parent Without Guilt

We've all heard again and again warnings for parents to not bad mouth theirKids 2.jpg former spouse to the children following their Massachusetts divorce. Clearly, while it's tempting to put Mom or Dad down for the way they've hurt you in the marriaage, venting to the kids puts them in a very uncomfortable position. They love both of their parents and don't want to hear about the ways your ex misbehaved or initiated your divorce.

Working With Opposite Sex Increases Risk of a Massachusetts Divorce

If home is where the heart is, work may be where it wanders. Married Massachusetts people whoWorkplace issues.jpg work with lots of members of the opposite sex are more likely to get divorced, with highly educated men appearing to be particularly susceptible to this trend, according to a new study.

Talk "To", Not "At", Your Child During And After Massachusetts Divorce

Therapists are always reminding parents to talk to their Massachusetts children.Mom-and-Dad-House.jpg Unfortunately, many parents need just such a reminder - especially in today's mega-paced culture in which just sitting down to a family dinner together seems to be a major accomplishment. Too often, busy parents find themselves talking "at" their children, but not "to" them. And most especially, not "with" them.

You're Getting Divorced in Massachusetts: Does Your Child Need Therapy?

If you're a Massachusetts divorcing parent, worries about your kids are high onJoy.jpg your "list of stuff that keeps me up at night." Do they feel betrayed? Angry? Grief-stricken? Stigmatized? Will they live like ping pong balls, miserably bouncing between homes? Will they have difficulty forming loving attachments in the future or develop a cynicism about marriage? These are natural questions, and they often prompt concerned parents to ask me if they should put their kids in therapy.

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