January 2020 Archives

There is an old adage that says, "The only constant is change itself." If you're facing the end of your marriage or you're in the middle of a Massachusetts divorce, you are about to be swept up in change, probably a dramatic shift from what you've known for a long time. Even if the change is, or will ultimately be a good one, it can be unsettling nonetheless. Given that, it is likely you are experiencing some serious trepidations, worry, or at the very least, feeling uncomfortable about the unknown.

In truth, most successful long-term Massachusetts relationships are based onstrong emotional and physical connections. But intimacy isn't necessarily equated with complete honesty. There are many couples that don't "tell all," yet maintain a trusting, fulfilling relationship. Likewise, there are some couples that suffer a great deal when well-kept secrets (or ultimately revealed ones) lead to mistrust and hurt.

One of the greatest challenges divorced Massachusetts parents face is adequately meeting their children's needs during and after the divorce. While most parents pay lip service to focusing on the well-being of the children, sadly that's not always the case.

Addiction can take over a person's ability to function as an active part of a Massachusetts marriage. It can turn the person you love into someone you no longer recognize. It becomes exponentially worse if they refuse to seek treatment and their addiction spirals, especially for a prolonged period. Their behavior can quickly become out of control and can put a heavy strain on you and your family.